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Morning @bignosegirly0 just checking in on you this morning and checking that your safe this morning? I am hearing how tough things are right now for you and im sending you a lot of strength. Im hearing how you are struggling to find love and it’s really impacting you. Would you like to chat a bit more about what finding love might look like for you and how this is affecting you? Just to say You will find the right person who appreciates and accepts you for the amazing person you are and altho it might take time you are doing so well to keep going.


You are important and such a valuable member of the community.We are here for you and you are doing so well by keeping going even when it feels so hard right now.

Sending hugs and support and if you need anything today we are here for you but just signposting to some other services as well incase you want to speak to them

Crisis Messenger (24/7) | text THEMIX to 85258
Samartians (24/7) | call 116 123 | email jo@samaritans.org
Papyrus (2pm-midnight) | call 0800 068 41 41 | text 07786 209 697 | email pat@payrus-uk.org
Supportline (hours vary) | call 01708 765 200
Childline call 0800 11 11

Take care

Morning @bignosegirly0 and nice to meet you. I don’t think we’ve ever met before on the boards!
I’m sorry to hear that you’re struggling with looking different when you’re inside and outside I think it’s really a light thing I think when you’re outside things become a lot clearer and you can see things more easily. Have you spoken to anybody about your worries around how you look? I think that you’re doing great and that it can be really hard sometimes to like compare yourself but just keep being you and your awesomeness will shine through
Sending hugs

I'm so sorry to hear you're struggling with such heavy and difficult feelings @bignosegirly0 We're here for you, and you absolutely do deserve to be heard and valued. Echoing what's written above, perhaps this feeling of detachment is a way of your mind coping with these fears and emotions?
Sending hugs

Hey @eylah, thanks for keeping us posted. That sounds really hard, and it makes so much sense that while a part of you is enjoying the independence, it also feels very lonely to be on your own now. Both those things can absolutely be true at once, and it feels really huge that you're in your new flat now after all these months of waiting. It's such a big change, and it feels really special that we can be a small part of that with you here

When you're lonely, what do you feel you crave most or need?

Also, are there any little corners or bits of your new flat that you enjoy? I'd love to hear more about your new home if you wanted to describe it to us a bit